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Q: Being an idol gets really tiring, especially with all the schedules. Is there anyone that you talk to specifically when you're having any problems?

·         Jonghyun: I think that it's the same for everyone really. Onew-hyung is our leader so we go vent out our frustrations on him when it gets too hard to keep. He's very supportive and will stand by us even if we want to stand independently. At times, it gets frustrating but looking back I'm really glad to have him by our side.

·         Taemin: Instead of having Onew-hyung tell us to do such and such about our situation, he gives us options and tell us to follow what we think is right in the end. He listens very intently and will always tell us that it's okay to be a little selfish once in while but to remember that we have other people to think about too, and not just ourselves.

·         Minho: For me, it is also Onew-hyung. However, at times I don't want to burden him. Because we are a five member group and he is our leader, whenever we have problems, he will always be the first person we talk to. When I can, I call my mom and ask for her opinions instead because Onew-hyung has his own worries. If I go to him every time I get frustrated, then he will only get worried over nothing.

·         Key: Although I also go to Onew-hyung when I have worries about certain subjects, if we're talking about personal problems, I'd have to say that I go to Minho. Out of the five members in SHINee, I met Minho first so he knows me better than anyone else here. It's not even as if he gives out good advice, because he doesn't really give any, but I go to him because he's the closest thing I have to a best friend. If I am anxious about something personal, I keep it to myself until I see Minho and the words just fly out of my mouth before I even notice. He doesn't tell me what to do but instead he just hugs me and tells me that he'll be there if I ever need him. Because of his words, I will always feel a little better after I talk to him.

·         Onew: Ah, this is a hard topic for me to answer. As the leader, I should be the one carrying all of the burdens so when I'm ever worried about something, I tend to keep it to myself. Being the oldest, I don't want to worry my dongsaengs so instead of going to them, I will contact Leeteuk-hyung and ask him to guide me because I am still young. Lately however, hyung told me that it's okay to burden the members about my problems because they are there for me as much as I am there for them. So recently, if I ever encounter something that is bothering me I no longer call Leeteuk-hyung. Instead, I've started to talk to my dongsaengs. They're really helpful and will guide me with different suggestions that they give.

·         Jonghyun: I think that Onew-hyung worries too much about us and doesn't think of himself. I'm really aware of this, and we are very thankful but I hope that you know that we are here for you too [to Onew].

·         Credit: Candy Magazine

Can I be the one who's crying over this? I just love them. Especially, Minkey. Imagine Minho hugs Key and said I'll be here if you need me. God, it was so much drama BUT is real. And Jongyu's answers too. And Taemin too! Oh my god!! 

 

I just found it on tumblr and GOSH, I just can't find any reason to start hating them. It's just; this is what I've said before about my reason to start liking SHINee. They don’t only act like partner in professional way. They act as family and that’s why I just freaking love them. They have that bond. I really envy them to have that bond between each member.

I’ve once said that I want to have that kind of strong bond with someone or some people. It’s just when I see SHINee being a family and love each other like that, I can see that spark. A spark that is different because that spark comes from a beautiful relationship. You see, they are not just best friends, but they are more than that.

Their friendship turns into family.

And I love that.

That’s why I adore SHINee. It’s because I can learn many things from their ways to express their love, how to make your friendship stronger, and probably I can learn to make that bond with my besties. I wish that I could build that bond between me and my besties.

I wish you could do that too with your best friends, my dearest readers.